Why email lists, engagement, and real relationships matter more than going viral.

Dor Dotson is one of the top organic social specialists working in independent film – every year she is working on the top docs vying for the Oscars. I’ve been lucky to work with her a number of times – most recently on Steal This Story, Please out in theaters now.
I was fortunate to have her come as one of our visiting experts to our 8 Above Distribution Lab. (Note the next cohort of the lab starts this summer – click here to find out more). This post represents the highlights from that session where Dor went through and discussed 5 myths that surround social media. What I love about Dor is her practical approach to engaging audiences in the social space – and how she adjusts her tactics for different audiences. What follows is a breakdown of key myths, takeaways, and actionable strategies for building an audience in a way that’s sustainable and aligned with your creative practice.
Myth 1: “Social media is the most effective way to build your audience”
- It’s important, but not sufficient on its own
- Don’t ignore email lists: they are stable, direct, and algorithm-proof
- You own your email contacts (unlike followers on platforms)
- Email allows for remarketing and sustained engagement
Myth 2: “You’ll build a following just by posting consistently”
- Consistency helps, but it’s not a growth strategy by itself
- Social media is about relationship building, not just output
- Avoid overly promotional posts, focus on connection
- Engage authentically with people interested in your topic – micro engagements count. Use people’s names in responses – let them know you are not a robot.
- Use tools like Google Alerts to stay plugged into your subject area
Myth 3: “Your followers are seeing everything you post”
- Only a small percentage of followers see any given post
- There’s no guarantee people will remember your content
- Repetition is necessary: repurpose and reuse strategically
- Your real audience includes people who don’t know you yet
- Design for who audiences your followers will share the project with – eg new audiences.
Myth 4: “You need to post everything everywhere”
- You don’t need to be on every platform
- Focus on where your audience actually spends time
- Use consistent handles across platforms for clarity
- Cross-promote content without spreading yourself too thin
- Invest your energy where you’re seeing traction
Myth 5: “You need to be a pro to build a strategy”
- You are already the expert in your film’s subject
- Your knowledge is your foundation for outreach
- Building a community takes time, start early
- Learn by observing others and adapting what works
Key Takeaways
- Engagement matters more than follower count
- A smaller, active audience is more valuable than a large, passive one
- Be descriptive and give context to your posts
- Storytelling and emotional resonance are key
- Video performs especially well across platforms
- TikTok is worth exploring:
- Rewards consistency
- Aim for 1–2 posts per week over at least 9 weeks
Practical Guidelines
- Tag collaborators, organizations, and relevant accounts
- Avoid reusing the exact same images repeatedly
- Don’t rely on text-heavy graphics
- Use both Instagram Stories and posts to your feed
- Prioritize video when possible
The Bigger Picture
- Social media can be an extension of your film
- Treat your posts like micro-stories connected to your larger project
- Focus on building relationships, not just broadcasting updates
- Stay adaptable: platforms change, but storytelling doesn’t
- https://jonreiss.substack.com/p/tales-from-the-lab-social-media-myth
